What Is Deep Listening?
Today
someone told me about several shootings that has taken place over the
last few days. Then after he told me about the violent incidents, he
commented that. “People are crazy.” But, what does that really
mean? Does it imply that he is not crazy just because at the moment
he is not displaying obvious violence? Does it mean that when people
are acting cruel with one another that one really doesn't understand
why it happens, so one has a tendency to dismiss it as being nonsense?
Violence
is a problem that has never been fully investigated. People tend to
think that it is only outward cruel behavior. But, life is like a
seed that blossoms. Everything that we see comes from a seed which
blooms into the big things. But everything begins as a seed and what
goes on within that seed.
The
seed does not look like the thing that it blooms into being. The
seed of an avocado does not look like an avocado. The seed of a human
being (an embryo) does not look like a person. My point is that the
reason why we fail to understand violence is because “the seed of
violence” does not look like the outward behavior of violence. So,
humanity has mainly dealt with the symptoms of violence, rather than
its origin.
Violence
is conflict, which comes from division. Where there is division,
eventually conflict and destruction follow. The “seed of violence”
lies in the Emotional area of our Being (a.k.a., the
Emotional-Imagination which contains all of our emotional experiences
or memories). It is this area that has been wrongly dealt with.
J. Krishnamurti - Ojai 1982 - Discussion with Scientists 1 -
Roots of Psychological Disorder
Over
the centuries, the Emotional part of our being has been suppressed
with beliefs, ideals or analytical conclusions, which has done
nothing to end violence. Violence is the essence of OPPOSITION.
Humanity has been trained to oppose their true thoughts and feelings
and substitute them with more desirable ones. That is a fatal flaw,
because the psyche IS its feelings and thoughts. The psyche cannot
improve itself by imagining the OPPOSITE of its so-called ugly
thoughts and feelings. But, the psychological authorities have
insisted that we must force ourselves to think and feel the OPPOSITE
of our ugly or dark thoughts and feelings.
By
thinking the OPPOSITE of our original feelings or thoughts, we are in
direct OPPOSITION within ourselves. This is violence; a war within our
mind against itself. So whenever people interact, they must do to
others what they do to themselves, psychologically. Any form of
emotional suppression brings about conflict in the mind. A mind in
conflict is a violent mind. The longer the mind pretends to be nice
and at peace, while it subconsciously is boiling mad, sooner or later
the internal pressure explodes. Then, someone who seemed to be gentle
starts killing people, and then most people who thought they knew
this person is shocked by their sudden display of violence.
Even
at sporting events, people emotionally identify with their team, and
sometimes when their team loses, they are ready to fight the fans of
the winning team. Also, the team players get into fights. And, we
have accepted this behavior as being “normal”.
J. Krishnamurti - Ojai 1982 - Discussion with Scientists 2 -
Psychological suffering
Being
emotionally identified with a race, country, community gang, etc. all
involves violence. But, how does this get started? If you will
notice, babies are not violent because they have not learned how to
emotionally identify with anything or anyone, yet.
All
people have emotional thoughts and feelings about everything taking
place in their lives. To be alive means we must have emotional
responses to everything going on in our lives. But, tradition has
handed down a blueprint that influences us to DIVIDE our Emotional
Being into “Good” & “Bad” or “Light” & “Dark”,
then we are told that we must ignore, shun or reject one side and
cling to the other side our our nature. THIS IS AN ACT OF VIOLENCE
because it is OPPOSITION!
Whenever
the mind OPPOSES itself, it is DIVIDED against itself. Once the mind
is DIVIDED, it can be CONQUERED or CONTROLLED. The governments of the
world have been practicing Mind-Control. After all, the word “govern”
means “control”. And, “mental” means “mind”. The first
form of government was “organized religion”. They ruled over
people because they feared their emotions. They assumed that their
emotions were spirits of demons invading them and making them have
“dark thoughts and feelings” to be influenced to commit acts of
cruelty. So the clever and cunning people put on robes and came up
with “religious jargon” in order to deceive the psychologically
ignorant people into blind obedience. So down through the centuries,
people have automatically accepted traditional ways of thinking. The
key to mind-control is to never allow questioning.
All
holidays are a subtle form of mind-control, because we are expected
to blindly celebrate them. It is a way of worshiping the past. The
past is dead. But, it is kept alive through the constant repetition
of rituals. This is purely emotional and superstition. One fears what
will happen if one does not celebrate holidays and to verbally
acknowledge the holidays with their community peers. Governments
monitor the population to make sure that people are maintaining
traditional thinking. Governments control the masses through their
emotional identifications. So whenever they want to take the children
for warfare, they introduce some emotional reason as to why it is
necessary for them to give their lives for some emotional-based
cause.
J. Krishnamurti - Ojai 1982 - Discussion with Scientists 3 -
The Need For Security
However,
on the everyday social level, people are violent with each other by
stroking the egos of each other everyday. The ego is a byproduct of
emotional division. The mind chooses to acknowledge the thoughts and
feelings that it likes and shun the ones that it dislikes. Therefore,
the shunned emotions are pushed down into the basement of the mind,
called the subconscious, which becomes the enemy of its conscious
mind (the superficial level of the mind). And, this is the ego – a
conditioned mind that is broken, divided or fragmented. The emotional
part of our being is ignorant about this conditioning and it has been
programmed to protect its ignorance so that its ego can remain in
tact.
You
see, the very thing that is making the world crazy and unsafe is what
everyone is hanging onto and protecting. Everybody thinks that they
are sane for defending their ego. But in reality, they are not,
because the ego is out of touch with the side of its nature that it
has rejected. Meaning, the conscious is at war with its subconscious.
So when these mentalities relate to each other, there is a constant
eruption of violence, everyday, all over the world.
Locking
people up is not a solution. You can't lock up the entire world,
after all. We are at a period of time where the world is going
through a millennium shift, which is not in technology. The shift is
taking place in the psyche of Humanity. We are facing an
unprecedented challenge of awakening to our ancient psychological
conditioning. The more we resist waking up, the more the mind is
struggling against itself causing an ever increasing eruption of
violence in our local communities and within our families.
While
humans have evolved on a mechanical and technological level, the
emotional (right side of the brain) is still primitive operating out
of contradiction, which is OPPOSITION which is VIOLENCE. Humanity's
violence is UNNATURAL because it is having a fallout that is
poisoning our entire biosphere (that is, our planet, atmosphere and
the whole ecosystem). If our warmongering continues to escalate, then
the earth will die, then so will our entire species. This is why, at
this point and time in history, we are being challenged to WAKE UP to
our deadly psychological mistake of maintaining our ego (a mind that
is emotionally divided against itself that seeks competition and war
in order to feel IMPORTANT).
So
when this person who told me about these killings said that people
are crazy, he was implying that he was not like them. But the truth
is that he is exactly like them, on a psychological (seed of
violence) level.
The
violent conditioning maintains itself by imagining that it is the
OPPOSITE of anything that is ugly about itself. If for instance, one
is having sexual thoughts or feelings about someone that they
shouldn't be, then one tells oneself that I wont think that way. The
more the mind resists its feelings, eventually one will lose control
and do the very thing that one is resisting thinking about. This
happens to priests and children, does it not? Emotional OPPOSITION is
the seed of conflict that eventually takes over ones behavior.
J. Krishnamurti - Ojai 1982 - Discussion with Scientists 4 -
What is A Healthy Mind?
Whereas,
the Full Attention to any thought or feeling, is a NEUTRAL action
that holds it until it has told its whole story, then it withers away
like a dead leaf falling off a branch or twig. There is No opposition
where there is a complete communion with any state of mind. The
holistic energy of perception is not an act of will nor desire, so it
is not a product of ones “like” or “dislike”; it is NEUTRAL
self-awareness. In that Neutral Energy is right action and ones
conduct is born out of that pure state of attention. When the mind is
operating out of wholeness, it is in a state of Love and will do what
is right.
The
mind brings about cruel behavior only when it is divided within
itself. Being aware of psychological contradiction, ends it.
Unawareness to contradiction is what strengthens contradiction, which
is violence. When the seed of violence is detected within oneself,
there is where it is either nourished or ended. The reason why people
protect their violent conditioning is because there is a pleasurable
component to it. Most people can't let go of the pleasurable part of
their conditioning. And, that is why they tolerate the cruel aspects
of it.
It
feels pleasurable to feel superior, important or the power of
domination through being an emotional authority. It feels pleasurable
to emotionally identify with the “concept of goodness”. All
emotional concepts are beliefs that give an “illusion of goodness”.
You see, the ego likes to pretend to be moral or good by imagining
that it is something that it is not. The sign of this is that it
requires verbal support. People go to church, temples or gang
hangouts to tell each other that they are whatever they want to
emotionally hear about themselves. But, a mind that actually SEES
itself as it is, without pretending to be the OPPOSITE, does not need
anybody to tell it that it is moral, because the very SEEING is
WHOLE, which means that it is COMPLETE unto itself and does not
require any outside agency to confirm that it is in a state of
clarity, psychologically. Such a mind is totally free of violence,
because its seed has no energy of opposition taking place.
Psychological
mind is creating the violent circumstances of our lives. No outside
agency can protect you from the violence in your life. Only you can
end it by being holistically aware of your mind contradicting itself.
Holistic means that there is no opposition to whatever you detect
going on with your emotional responses. I've lived in the most violent
neighborhoods for decades and never has the violence touched my life,
because the seed of my mind is under constant vigilance that pays
full attention to ALL emotions that arise, and I fully understand the
danger of opposing whatever I feel or think, because I AM my thoughts
and feelings. That means that if I struggle against myself, then I'm
being violent to myself and then I must also be violent with others;
then others can attack my life, too.
J Krishnamurti:
Breaking The Pattern Of Conditioning - Mind Control
Breaking The Pattern Of Conditioning - Mind Control
J. Krishnamurti:
The Movement of Thought and Becoming
The
Great Millennium Shift is a psychological challenge that will
determine if our species will become extinct or not. Because, if
Humanity fails to Awaken to its Emotional Conditioning, then this
violent mind, which is the Weapon of Mass Destruction that has built
all the weapons, is going to destroy everything. And, every time you
hear about people being cruel and violent, then challenge yourself to
notice your emotional response to what you hear. There is no need to
censor what you feel – just be in full contact and learn from that
awareness. Learning through detecting your emotional responses is NOT
an act of opposition. Also, be aware of your tendency to want to
change anything that you find embarrassing about your thinking. Just
be aware of your emotional responses. It is that Neutral action that
brings about a radical change in your psyche so that it is no longer
an ego, but is Whole. After all, wholeness brings about solutions and
creation. The broken mind, brings about problems and destruction.
Jiddu Krishnamurti:
How can the mind transform itself?
How can the mind transform itself?
Thank
you.
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